98209. Commentary: Be a Child's Hero
By Staff Sgt. Alicia K. Borlik, USA
American Forces Press Service
WASHINGTON -- I caught part of a news show about heroes
recently. It was refreshing to see this approach when so
many times we just hear about the "bad guys" and the "bad
things" people do.
But the most interesting part of the show came when it
asked, "What would you do if someone committed a crime right
in front of your face?"
Studies found that most turned a blind eye. In two test
cases, hundreds passed by a suspicious-looking man trying to
jimmy a car door open. Even more passers-by looked away
after seeing a man pickpocket a woman's wallet in broad
daylight.
Only one man took action. When asked if he thought
before he acted, he said no, he just did it. No thought,
just a natural reaction, he said. These tests were conducted
in 16 cities across the United States with the same results.
So what does this say about us as a country? Could we
care less what happens to others? Or maybe we justify
turning a blind eye instead of putting ourselves in harm's
way. What if that pickpocket had a gun? He could have. Yet
with no thought to his own safety, that one man stood up for
what was right.
How many of us can say the same thing? That when we see
a wrong, we say something or do something. Or is the real
question what will we tolerate?
Take child abuse and neglect. A child is at stake, not
just a wallet, yet only half of child abuse and neglect
cases are reported, according to the National Committee to
Prevent Child Abuse.
In 1996, more than 3 million cases were reported to
U.S. child protective service agencies. The agencies
substantiated about 1 million of those cases as victims of
child maltreatment. That's 14 out of 1,000 U.S. children.
And if those statistics aren't alarming enough, neglect
was the culprit in 60 percent of those cases. Physical abuse
accounted for 23 percent, nine percent was sexual abuse and
emotional maltreatment accounted for four percent.
The good news is that child abuse reporting levels have
increased 45 percent in the past 10 years. This increase is
attributed to better education.
April is National Child Abuse Prevention Month. The
theme for this year's observance is "Nurturing Family Growth
... Planting Seeds for Future Generations."
The Defense Department sent teaching packets out to
each military child development program. The packets include
many learning materials to raise public awareness of child
abuse and its prevention, such as lesson plans, information
booklets and stickers.
The National Committee to Prevent Child Abuse put the
packet together to encourage families and communities to
work together to prevent abuse. Detailed ideas are given for
families, community members and child care providers to use
in their regular care programs.
One great tragedy is when a child dies because of abuse
and neglect. In 1996, 1,046 children were fatal victims of
maltreatment -- three children every day. According to
information from 16 states, 41 percent of the children who
died between 1994 and 1996 had prior or current contact with
child protective agencies.
For more information, check out the National Committee
to Prevent Child Abuse website at www.childabuse.org or
reach out to the children's program in your community.
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