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Anna E. Murray934 S. St.Memorial ServicesColored Orphans HomeWash. D.C.forMrs.Anne M. Purvis

Wash. D.C.1899

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Anne M. Purvis.

ANNE M. PURVIS was a native of Eastport, Maine. She was the daughter of Warren Hatheway, the leading citizen of the place. During her early womanhood she taught school in her native town. Subsequently she moved to Boston, Mass., to become identified with the missionary undertakings of the Unitarian Society. At the close of the Civil War she was sent by the New England Freedmen's Aid Association of Boston to Richmond, Va., to teach and work among the Freedmen, to help prepare them for the new life born to them. She devoted several years to this work with rare fidelity and earnestness of purpose. In 1869 she was called to Washington to take charge of the Home established by the National Association for the Relief of Destitute Colored Women and Children, in which she did most valuable service for a year. In 1870 she again returned to Richmond, to complete the work originally inaugurated by her. In January, 1871, she became a teacher in the Normal and Industrial Institute at Hampton, Va., where she remained until her marriage with Dr. Charles B. Purvis, in April of the same year. During her married life her residence was in Washington, D. C.

She early identified herself with the Unitarian Church and with several of the charitable organizations of the city. Among them was the Colored Orphans' Home, of which she had been matron. For years she devoted herself with untiring zeal to make this institution a success.

She was a member of the Associated Charities, of the Civic Center. Included in her work was looking after the Sewing and Kindergarten Schools. She was a member of the Twentieth Century Club, and was at one time president of the leading church society. She was also a member of the Woman's Relief Association of Washington and of the Woman's Rights Society for the District of Columbia.

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Memorial Service

A memorial service was held at the Colored Orphans' Home on Tuesday, May 9, 1899, under the auspices of the National Association for the Relief of Destitute Colored Women and Children. The service was opened by prayer by Rev. F. J. Grimké, followed by chanting of the Lord's prayer by the children of the Home.

After further singing by the children, remarks were made by Mrs. Helen A. Cook, Secretary of the National Association; a song, entitled "Sometime, Somewhere," was rendered by Miss Kate H. Slade; remarks were made by Rev. F. J. Grimké; and the children sang "Some sweet day." A picture of Mrs. Purvis, was then presented to the Association by Dr. Purvis, and a few remarks of acceptance made by Mrs. Hatch, the President, after which the children sang "It singeth low," by Rev. John W. Chadwick.Benediction by Rev. F. J. Grimké.

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Some Sweet Day, By and By.

We shall reach the summer landSome sweet day, by and by;We shall press the golden strandSome sweet day, by and by.Oh, the loved ones watching there,By the tree of life so fair,Till we come their joy to shareSome sweet day, by and by.

At the crystal river's brink,Some sweet day, by and by,We shall find each broken link,Some sweet day, by and by.Then the star that, fading here,Left our hearts and homes so drear,We shall see more bright and clearSome sweet day, by and by.REFRAIN.By and by, yes by and by,Some sweet day,We shall meet our loved ones gone,Some sweet day, by and by.

O, these parting scenes will endSome sweet day, by and by;We shall gather friend with friendSome sweet day, by and by.There, before our Father's throne,When the mists and clouds have flown,We shall know as we are known,Some sweet day, by and by.

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Remarks of Mrs. Delen A. Cook,SECRETARY OF THE NATIONAL ASSOCIATION FOR THE RELIEF OF DESTITUTE COLORED WOMEN AND CHILDREN.

Mrs. President, Members of the National Association, and Friends:We are met together this afternoon to pay the tribute of respect and affection to the memory of Mrs. Anne M. Purvis. We have turned aside from the hurrying events of the world's daily life--on the one hand, wars and rumors of war, aggression, conquest, the overmastering love of money and power, and all the evidences of man's inhumanity to man; on the other, the vague and illusory dreams of universal peace, the approach of the millennium, that era of good-will to men that after two thousand years is yet visible only to the eye of faith. We have paused amid these tremendous realities to consider for a moment the mystery of a single human life, its inward growth and the effect of its development on those brought within the sphere of its influence.

It was nearly a year ago, when the earth, as now, was filled with the beauty of early summer, that Mrs. Purvis passed away. Happily for her and for those who loved her, her last illness was not marked by extreme suffering. The terrible agonies that so often rend the hearts of relatives and friends and make death a blessed relief were absent. Here all was peace--only a gradual weakening of the physical powers, the inner light becoming clearer and stronger as cares and responsibilities fell, one by one, away. Apart from the pang of separation, the sense of deep personal loss, there remains only a tender memory, like the delicate fragrance of flowers, evanescent, yet leaving a lasting impression.

Of the many and varied relations sustained by Mrs. Purvis to our complicated modern life--to the family, the church, to society, to works of mercy through other organizations and by other means-the one that naturally occupies our attention today 00075day is her two-fold relation to this institution--to her associates and co-workers and to the inmates, for so many years the object of her solicitude.

More than twenty years of continuous service were given as a member of the National Association; for several years she held the responsible and laborious position of Secretary. She was one of a special committee appointed to urge upon Congress the need of the present building to replace the old frame structure that was a source of constant apprehension on account of danger from fire. She was often appointed by the Executive Board to go before the Committee on Appropriations and plead for the means to sustain the Home; but it was as chairman of the Committee on Admissions and Dismissions that she was most effective, and displayed truly admirable qualities, qualities that would have fitted her for a place of greater distinction in the eyes of the world. To this important and useful work she brought a vigorous intellect, keen insight into character, sound judgment, and thorough conscientiousness. She was indefatigable in her efforts to reach the facts in every application for admission to the Home. With a heart open to every appeal, she was not easily deceived by misrepresentation; ever willing to afford relief, yet desirous to protect the Home against imposition.

At the meetings she was always greeted with a smile of welcome. Her entrance brought the feeling that accompanies a rush of fresh, pure air; there was something stirring, rousing, invigorating, and the opening of her budget filled one with agreeable anticipations. The subject was dull, indeed, that could not be enlivened by Mrs. Purvis' witty comments. Her playful humor could invest even a committee's report with an interest entirely apart from its possible importance. She possessed the power of clear and forcible presentation, cleaving to the core of a matter, reaching the real question at issue. Quick to arrive at her own conclusions and zealous to maintain them, she was ever tolerant of the opinions of others. In debate, while her remarks were frequently trenchant, they were never discourteous; her fairness and good feeling were too apparent ever to arouse resentment. 00086To the difficult duty of finding homes for the children when they had arrived at the prescribed age she gave a full appreciation of the importance of her task, realizing how fateful were the next six years to the helpless objects of public charity. Would there be a gradual struggling toward the light, or would the light of intelligence be entirely obscured by the hard conditions of the life to which they are condemned?

Mrs. Purvis was never satisfied with a mere assurance that a child would be kindly treated, but she sought every possible guarantee that the school life should be continued; that some opportunity for mental growth should be given. She vigorously supported the view, advanced by some other members of the Association, that it was wrong to place them in communities where public sentiment was adverse to them as members of a proscribed race, and she endeavored very earnestly to secure homes in the North and West, where their progress was not, at least, barred by proscriptive laws. Too often the visitor sent to examine into their surroundings brought back a report of a boy or girl on a lonely farm, sitting solitary in the kitchen during the long winter evenings, while the family enjoyed the light and warmth of the sitting-room and the pleasure of companionship. I remember hearing Mrs. Purvis read a letter from a lady in a New England town to whom one of our little girls had been sent. The child had proved worthy and her services were valued. She went to school with the other children and to church with the lady herself, and there her social life ended. The letter suggested that a home in the same neighborhood for another little girl might be sought in order that the two might be company for each other. To some members of the board it seemed a trivial matter; the child was well housed and fed, and it was all that could be expected; but Mrs. Purvis' ready sympathies enabled her to enter with intense realization into the isolation, the terrible loneliness that would oppress the heart of a child under such circumstances. It was this quick sympathy that endeared her so greatly to all the inmates of the Home. I can conceive of nothing more depressing than to be regarded as merely one of a body of dependents, one atom of an indistinguishable 00097human mass; but to Mrs. Purvis each one was an individual, with an individual history. She knew each one by name; she knew his age, how long he had been in the Home, and his personal characteristics. She never forgot them, no matter how long they were away, and rejoiced with sincere rejoicing when reports came of their health and general well-being. She was particular about the fashion of their dress. She was always in favor of increasing their privileges and adding to their happiness. She wanted their taste educated by agreeable and beautiful surroundings, and believed in cultivating their self-respect rather than in severe discipline. She acknowledged their manhood, and felt with earnestness their equal right to live, to grow in mental stature, to aspire. With the intuitive perception of childhood, the little ones recognized her as well-wisher, helper, friend.

I rejoice that the features of this good woman--surely no nobler appellation could be bestowed upon her--are to be ever in their sight. I hope they may be taught to hold in grateful remembrance the name of Mrs. Purvis, the brightest, most vividly interesting, and original personality among all the women who for the last quarter of a century have given service of love and labor to this work for the uplifting of mankind.

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Sometime, Somewhere

Unanswered yet! the prayers your lips have pleaded In agony of heart these many years?Does faith begin to fail? Is hope departing?And think you all in vain those falling tearsSay not the Father hath not heard your prayer;You shall have your desire sometime, somewhere.Unanswered yet! though when you first presentedThis one petition at the Father's throneIt seemed you could not wait the time of asking,So urgent was your heart to make it known.Though years have passed since then, do not despair;The Lord will answer you sometime, somewhere.Unanswered yet! Nay, do not say ungranted,Perhaps your work is not yet wholly done--The work begun when your first prayer was uttered--And God will finish what he has begun;If you will keep the incense burning there,His glory you shall see sometime, somewhere.Unanswered yet! Faith cannot be unanswered;Her feet are firmly planted on the rock;Amid the wildest storms she stands undaunted,Nor quails before the loudest thunder shock.She knows Omnipotence has heard the prayer,And cries, "It shall be done sometime, somewhere."

Remarks of Rev. Francis F. Grimké,PASTOR FIFTEENTH STREET PRESBYTERIAN CHURCH.

00119We have met here today for the purpose of receiving a picture of one who was long identified with the Association having this institution in charge. In participating in this service, it is but natural for us to think of her--of her personality, of her qualities of heart and mind, and of her work. It is not my purpose to make any extended remarks. The understanding was that the address would be made by Mrs. Helen Cook, and that I would add only a word. I am sure we have all been delighted with the beautiful tribute to which we have just listened. With all my heart I say amen to it.

Mrs. Purvis, as we all know, was an exceptional woman. Life to her was real, life was earnest. She was inspired by a noble ambition to be useful in her day and generation--to be helpful to others. George Eliot's noble words, I believe, expressed the deepest yearning of her soul: "O may I join the choir invisibleOf those immortal dead who live againIn minds made better by their presence; liveIn pulses stirred to generosity,In deeds of daring rectitude, in scornOf miserable aims that ends with self,In thoughts sublime that pierce the night like stars,And with their mild persistence urge men's mindsTo vaster issues."

Nothing could more beautifully express the aim, the purpose of her life. She had many noble qualities. How conscientious she was! Duty to her was the voice of God. It was to her the "inward must," as Lowell expresses it--the great imperative from which she never shrank; and hence she had an inward 001210peace and quiet of soul which come only to those to whom duty is supreme. "Stern law-giver! yet thou dost wearThe Godhead's most benignant grace;Nor know we anything so fairAs in the smile upon thy face.Flowers laugh before thee on their beds,And fragrance in thy footing treads."Well, she knew that this meant. She had seen and felt and had been thrilled again and again by this "benignant grace," by the noble consciousness that she had been true to this inner voice.

She was a courageous woman. There was nothing of the craven, of the coward, in her make-up. She had convictions and she dared to express them. She was never afraid to be on the unpopular side of any question, or to express freely, frankly, what was in her mind.

She was a woman of sterling integrity of character. She could be relied upon; she could be trusted. She never sought to deceive or to mislead any one, or to produce a false impression. Truth lay at the very foundation of her character. Upon truth she rested, and in an atmosphere of truth she lived and moved and had her being.

She had also a very strong sense of justice. She respected the rights of others herself and was always quick to interpose in behalf of those who were wronged. I remember the case of a girl who went West from his Home. News came back that she was being cruelly treated by the woman to whom she had been indentured. At once Mrs. Purvis became interested, wrote the police authorities to have the case investigated, and had the girl sent back. Nothing stirred her more quickly than acts of injustice, especially when committed against those we were weak and defenseless.

She had many noble qualities, but the one, it seems to me that was most characteristic of her was her great sympathetic nature. She had a heart full of love; and in that, perhaps, 001311more than anything else, is to be found the secret of her power. And there is a lesson here for us all. Whatever else we may possess--wealth, culture, learning, great intellectual endowments--if we have not the power which comes from a loving, sympathetic heart, we cannot hope to do much good in this world. Only as love, unselfish love comes in and takes possession of the soul and dominates it can we hope to so take hold of people, to get that power over them that will enable us to be a real blessing to them. You may touch them on the outside, superficially, but you cannot get on the inside, deep down to the inner springs of their being, without it. What the world needs today more than anything else is this element of love. It is the loving sympathetic heart that holds the key of the future in all the relations of life, whether philanthropic or otherwise. That is the lever which you need and which I need, and which we all need in order to lift humanity. In nothing, perhaps, was the Lord Jesus Christ so wonderful as in this very element. He spoke as never man spake. The power which he exhibited over all forms of disease was wonderful, but it is not until we come to the sympathetic side of his nature that the climax in that wonderful life is reached. What a great heart he had! How love seem to fill his whole being. How sensitive he was to every appeal, to every outstretched hand, to every cry for help. How utterly oblivious to self he was in his eagerness to be of service to others. "He came not to be ministered unto, but to minister, and to give his life for others." And this spirit Mrs. Purvis possessed. She was sympathetic, she was kind-hearted. Her sympathies were not only genuine, but they were broad, they took in so much. She was interested in the little children, she was interested in the old people, she was interested in the poor, in the sick, in the unemployed, even the dumb animals excited her interest. You, who have known her, who have been associated with her, who have talked with her, know how great was her interest in the special work of this Association, how her very soul seemed to be wrapped up in the welfare of these children. We never will know in life how much time, and thought, and sympathy, and earnest effort she gave 001412to this work. She was not only interested in these dear children while they were here, but her loving sympathy followed them even away from here, in the new homes where they were sent; and no one knew better than the children how deeply, profoundly interested she was in them. If anything went wrong with them, they always knew where to write; and so she was constantly hearing from one and another. When things went well with them, how it rejoiced her heart, and when things went ill with them, how it saddened her, and how readily she set herself to work to rectify the evil, to right the wrong.

I never think of this Home without thinking of her. I never come to our meetings without thinking of her. It seems so natural for her to be present, so natural to see her face, and to hear the tones of her voice. It seems that she must be somewhere, only waiting to come in, with the same, sweet, pleasant smile upon her face. Longfellow's words come to me: "Lo! in that house of miseryA lady with a lamp I seePass through the glimmering gloom,And flit from room to room."And slow, as in a dream of bliss,The speechless sufferer turns to kissHer shadow as it fallsUpon the darkening walls."As if a door in heaven should beOpened, and then closed suddenly,The vision came and went,The light shone and was spent."

And so the vision of this good Samaritan, this Santa Filomena of our Association and Home, will come and go as long as this work lasts, as long as one of us remains. We can never forget her. She will always be to us "the sweet presence of a good diffused."

A word more, and then I am done: Some day our places in this Association will be vacant, as hers is today. May we do 001513our work so well; may the same noble spirit which animated her, the same earnestness, the same unselfish devotion, so characterize us that the same sense of loss shall be felt by those who remain when we are gone as we feel in regard to her. It is sweet to be missed, especially when it arises from the fact that we have been of service; that we have been a help, a blessing, to others. To be so missed is your privilege, and mine--is the privilege of us all.

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Remarks of Dr. PurvisON PRESENTING THE PICTURE OF MRS. PURVIS TO THE HOME.Mrs. President and Friends:If affords me pleasure to comply with your request to present to this institution a picture of Mrs. Purvis. I feel with you that her likeness should be upon these walls. For twenty-seven years she was closely identified with all this Home represents. To make these little unfortunates happy, to help these fatherless and motherless children, to ameliorate their condition, to plant one ray of hope in their little hearts, to prepare them in a measure for the bitterness that is to creep into their lives, so that they might be patient with the wrongs that will be heaped upon them, was her earnest desire. Their struggle to live, to exist, she knew would be great, for there were but few to extend to them a sympathetic hand.

She was a woman of convictions, of courage, the possessor of a superb moral nature. She was not afraid of the truth, nor afraid to do right. Accept this picture of a friend to the orphan and the unfortunate old, of a devoted wife and mother.

In accepting the picture presented by Dr. Purvis, Mrs. Hatch, President of the Association, said:"Dr. Purvis:"In behalf of the Association of which Mrs. Purvis was for so many years a member; of the Executive Committee, with whom she was brought into closer contact; of these children, in whom she took so deep an interest; indeed, of all who are in any way connected with this Home, I acknowledge most gratefully your precious gift, and may this speaking likeness of our dear friend be to each and every one of us an inspiration and encouragement to follow in the path where she has led."

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Auld Lang Syne.

It singeth low in every heart,We hear it each and all--A song of those who answer not,However we may call;They throng the silence of the breast,We see them as of yore;The kind, the brave, the true, the sweet,Who walk with us no more.

'Tis hard to take the burden up,When these have laid it down;They brightened all the joy of life,They softened every frown;But, oh, 'tis good to think of them,When we are troubled sore!Thanks be to God that such have been,Although they are no more!

More home-like seems the vast unknownSince they have entered there;To follow them were not so hard,Wherever they may fare;They cannot be where God is not,On any sea or shore;Whate'er betides, Thy love abides,Our God, forevermore.

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Extract from the Annual ReportOF THE COMMITTEE ON ADMISSIONS AND DISMISSIONS OF THE ORPHAN'S HOME, MRS. M. V. DATCHER, CHAIRMAN.

In the history of institutions, as well as in the lives of individuals there is a time when afflictions enter, checking their energies and lessening their strength and usefulness. This is common to all.

Such an affliction has been specially felt by the Committee on Admissions and Dismissions of this Association, for there has passed away during the present year our honored Chairman, Mrs. A.M. Purvis, who was so full of love for the poor dependents of the "National Home;" who worked so indefatigably in its interests; who was so untiring in her effort to relieve the discomforts of all under its care; whose cheerful smile and kindly words for the children, as well as for the old women, brought forth a responsive smile from many a dull face and brightened many a sad heart. She was actuated by principle. That principle was deep love for friendless, unfortunate humanity.

Her example of unselfish devotion we can never forget. Her irreparable loss will long be felt, and her memory will ever be cherished in our hearts.

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Tribute by the Women's Alliance of All Souls' Church.

With the opening of the summer of 1898 came the summons of death of one of the members of this Alliance, Mrs. Anne M. Purvis.

So closely was she connected with this body and its every undertaking that her absence from its meetings for many months last season was a sincere regret to all of us, and the knowledge now that she is never again to be one among us is a real sorrow.

Knowing Mrs. Purvis as some of us did, we feel that formal resolutions adopted by us and sent to the family are not the proper means whereby to express our feelings, and we have preferred to make in this way a note of her death; to say a word as to her life among us; to express our conviction that all is well with her, and to have this embodied in the minutes of today's meeting of the "Women's Alliance of All Souls' Church" in memory of her.

Endowed by nature with a sense of humor, which greatly aided in keeping her heart young in spite of increasing years, Mrs. Purvis yet looked upon life seriously and made practicable in a great degree that commandment which is one of the canons of this church, "Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself."

For many years she was connected with the management of the "Home for Destitute Colored Women and Children," serving as Secretary and as chairman of the "Committee on Admissions and Dismissions" of inmates to that institution. This office put her in touch with the very poor and unfortunate and gave to them a sympathetic yet discreet friend. Of many of the wards thus committed to her care she kept trace for years after they left the Home, in some instances to see them grow into honest lives, and again to realize in the fullest their sad heritage from slavery, which prevented any good development. 002018Discouragement, however, did not stay her hand nor weaken her faith.

The Associated Charities of the District of Columbia availed itself of her willingness to work in behalf of the poor and numbered her among its active workers.

In All Souls' Church Mrs. Purvis found her religious sphere, and in all its activities was an earnest participant. Of the Charity Committee she was long the Secretary and later the Chairman, and from its organization a devoted member.

In the "Twentieth Century Club" she was a member of the Board of Management, and in its affairs as well as in the discussions of the Club her word was always fitly spoken.

Of this Alliance she was a staunch support, lending a hand by counsel or deed on every occasion. Everywhere her voice was for justice and right, and to the public reforms of woman's suffrage and kindergarten instruction she for years lent active aid.

With these varied interests begging her time and attention, our friend made for her family a home wherein order, cheerfulness, and love reigned supreme, and hospitality was a pleasure. In consequence "the heart of her husband trusted in her" and "her children rise up to call her blessed." Thus has she-- "Wrought with human hands the creed of creeds In loveliness of perfect deeds."